[80SMAN3044]

Oh stop the nonsense! You're commitment is with HER, not him! RIGHT?!

No matter what you do, if she decides to break up her relationship with you, it can be with anyone - not necessarily him. Either you trust her, or you don't. It's that simple. But don't accuse the guy! It's her choice - not his and not yours. If she is not interested in him then she will not respond no matter what he does. It's probably more of an ego thing to her. Most people enjoy someone hanging around them like that because it flatters their ego. They like the idea that they are so desirable. That doesn't necessarily mean she will act on it; she simply enjoys the attention. You might ask HER why she "gave him a hug good-bye." Are they that close? The only people I hug are relatives and friends that I haven't seen for months. I do not hug co-workers or other people at school.

Remember, your hitting him with a baseball bat will only do three things: 1) put you in jail, 2) injure him and get him sympathy and quite possibly a good lawsuit against you which he can collect for years, and 3) drive your girlfriend away.