| I will actually be here for July 4th, but....?
You simply need to speak with both your friend & boyfriend...mentioning you would like to share the holiday in some way with BOTH! Possibly your friend may be included at the pool party that your boyfriend wants you to attend with him. She may even meet some new people who will become her friend... Thats the best approach...However, if your girlfriend has plans & is obvious not including you, then so be it, let her go with her plans & then you happily join your boyfriend with the pool-party invite~ also an opportunity for you to meet new friends! Enjoy...be safe~ Take care~ |