Over reacting? Should I go to anger management? - u-Assist Forums

MrKennedy1_SaveUsEdgeXXX · 07-30-2007, 12:26 AM

This is a dumb question I feel, but I'd like to hear peoples opinions. Ok, lets start off by saying me and my girlfriend of two years now live together and she goes to school and I work practically around the corner from each other. Well since the first week of school she met and became friends with this one guy, who I've met and actually burnt a game for him and slowly over the past months he's been trying to get real close to my girl, and I had told her he seems to like her and looks like he's gunna try something, but she just said she doesn't think so. He has even started coming to school early and waiting for my girl outside of her class, so he can talk to her before she goes into class and then he waits outside of class for her to come out, then follows her to the computer lab where she talks to me online and stays there trying to talk to her until she leaves. Then recently my girlfriend said she gave him a hug bye and he tried to kiss her....
When I heard this I kind of got pissed off a bit and was like what did she do and just started asking questions. Then I kinda got really upset cause he kept making moves on my girl after I had been cool to him, then he goes and disrespects me and my girl like that. It kinda pissed me off and I actually was planning on kicking his ***, even though I'm 5'5 and he's 6'5. I was actually going to bash his kneecaps in with a metal bat and pretty much just mess him up, not kill him. But if he wouldn't be able to walk for a while it wouldn't bother me, cause when I get into that zone of rage I really have no emotion. Is this wrong and should I maybe get anger management or something?

4HIM · 08-01-2007, 08:10 AM

You have every right to be mad but I don't think that either get you butt kicked by someone way bigger than you or going to jail is your only option. Your girlfirend needs to stay away from this guy. She needs to tell him that he crossed the line and now their friendship cannot go on. She needs to be clear and concise. Let her handle it, she's a grown up and she can handle it. If he persists then you can get involved but DO NOT get violent with him, it won't help and will only make things much, much worse.

NishiS · 08-03-2007, 03:54 PM

i dont think u need anger management. u just trying to protect whats yours. u have every right to. but maybe go about it a different way. just tell the guy to back off. first of all, is ur girl still hanging out with him even after he tried to make that stupid move of kissing her? ur girlfriend should be the one telling him he might have the wrong idea and they should back off for a little while until he figures out he needs to get a girl of his own.

80SMAN3044 · 08-05-2007, 11:38 PM

Oh stop the nonsense! You're commitment is with HER, not him! RIGHT?!

No matter what you do, if she decides to break up her relationship with you, it can be with anyone - not necessarily him. Either you trust her, or you don't. It's that simple. But don't accuse the guy! It's her choice - not his and not yours. If she is not interested in him then she will not respond no matter what he does. It's probably more of an ego thing to her. Most people enjoy someone hanging around them like that because it flatters their ego. They like the idea that they are so desirable. That doesn't necessarily mean she will act on it; she simply enjoys the attention. You might ask HER why she "gave him a hug good-bye." Are they that close? The only people I hug are relatives and friends that I haven't seen for months. I do not hug co-workers or other people at school.

Remember, your hitting him with a baseball bat will only do three things: 1) put you in jail, 2) injure him and get him sympathy and quite possibly a good lawsuit against you which he can collect for years, and 3) drive your girlfriend away.

AIRFLO · 08-08-2007, 07:22 AM

D is right, you better play cool as women do not like jealous types. So don't let it bother you if she like you and must and you mentioned the size different they say your prayers and hey if it does end then look forward to something better, I have been there and it doesn't hurt to fallin love witha millionare, just look at the jackpot that broad that scammed Paul of the Beatles, she hit the jackpot then called him an old an, bet she didn't say that on the wedding night.

If she does dump you it's much safer to taser everybody, like the dude on TV, when the gal zapped him. Naw just kidding.