Anger Management? - u-Assist Forums

TardisGirl · 08-17-2007, 02:18 PM

Sometimes if I feel like someone is attacking me verbally I get soooo angry. I feel sick in my stomach and I get the shakes. Afterwards I always feel like its my fault that person was being aggressive towards me and then I get really sad because I've provoked someone into treating me like this. What's wrong with me?

8054 · 08-18-2007, 06:10 PM

therapyy!!! or just relax. take it easy.

Ahab · 08-19-2007, 10:02 PM

YOU MUST BE STRESSED? I DON'T KNOW. JUST GO TAKE A DUMP IN THE TOILET

23reasons · 08-21-2007, 01:54 AM

it's not your fault, it's normal.
fuck that person, they're not worth your time.
cheers, get them out of your life, they don't deserve your company

aicram · 08-22-2007, 05:45 AM

Either hormones or anger management, i used to have it bc i couldnt learn to control myself. if this continues you should see someone, but dont get mad at them theyre just trying to help. i know what you mean. for me it was more than verbal

aicram · 08-23-2007, 09:37 AM

I dunno; it sounds like something you need to talk to your doctor about. You might have some kind of depression or anxiety disorder, and it sounds like it's a pretty nasty one that deserves immediate attention. You haven't even done anything wrong, and you're still feeling bad! That is SOOOOOOO not even fair to you, so don't you dare start thinking it is!

80SMAN3044 · 08-24-2007, 01:29 PM

Go see a psycologist. It doesnt mean your crazy just go. I think it would really help you out and you'll feel better.

80SMAN3044 · 08-25-2007, 05:21 PM

Welcome to my world, you might be a little more angry than i am since i don't know if it gets that bad for me, but i have gotten pretty close to doing that. if im really really angry i could do something like that...
i've been so angry over little sometimes i would break or throw something across the room. and start throwing a fit and tearing up.

mouseangel6480 · 08-26-2007, 09:13 PM

There is nothing wrong with you. What you are experiencing is Empathetic Transference. it is not really your fault that this person is angry at you. The best thing to do is take a step back from the situation and relax. I know it can be difficult. I had to learn this with my ex-wife who was always flying off the handlebars about one thing or another.