| How to break up?
Doesn't sound like either one of you is having fun.
Glad he is a better person, but this doesn't bode well for your future, even if you did like him once.
Your heart is telling you to move on, and that's what you need to do.
He isn't paying his own way? Get his rump out of there.
No notice, nothing. Put his things in a box, put them outside, and have the locks changed.
Get a protective order if you need to--he has had anger problems in the past? Sounds like a spoiled little creep to me.
Why in heavens name are you supporting him????
Be firm, fair and decent, but remember, you are not a social service agency. He is responsible for himself and his own life. He had a mother and it wasn't you. If she's not around for him, consider that maybe she smartened up and is hoping he will too.
While you continue to put up with the lousy behavior and he continues to MOOCH OFF YOU, you are encouraging everything you are getting.
Let him go get a life while you get one for yourself.
Good luck. | 
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