| hey gurls help me please? about guys? footbal players? Whether he is a jock/footy player or not isn't the problem. He is still a guy.
Him asking you would cheat on him obviously shows that he HAS CONSIDERED you as his girlfriend or at least cares about you, if he didn't like you why would he even care if you cheated on him or not because you wouldnt be going out with him in the first place. Some guys don't like to get too emotional and talk about feelings, and assuming hes a footy player, they tend to show little emotion. He isn't into this other girl he wants you.
If you like him, take the risk, trust him.
BUT
Never ever say 'I like you.' Don't be a sure thing. If you want him to want you, you have to make him work for you, if he gets you like a click he will think you are too easy and will take advantage. Flirt with him.
It doesn't mean you have to play football. He goes to your school? Go watch him at one of the school games, watch him at training (After training say hi, talk a little. Turn up with a wingwoman - a trusted friend to support you so you don't look like a loner.) Ask him to teach you some footy tips, turn up to a party you know he will be at. (INCREASE CHANCES of seeing him WITHOUT actually doing the asking out!) You will gradually build up a relationship.
When you talk to him, touch him lightly on his forearm, light, non-sexual contact ca be very pleasurable for a masculine male. Use your femininity!
Good luck! |